The Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide on How to Plan an Elopement

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Let’s skip all the fluff and get right down to it – I am here to help! I felt like the internet was missing a straight to the point step by step guide on how to plan an elopement.

As an elopement photographer and someone who is currently planning my own intimate wedding ceremony, being able to share this knowledge with people who don’t know where to start means a lot to me. This guide is unlike any other guide you will find out there. Complete with industry secrets, elopement ideas, location scouting tips, guidance on timelines and more! While I wrote this guide with Colorado in mind, the principles and steps can be applied to literally anywhere in the world.

I hope this can help you if you’re feeling lost in the planning phase and not sure what to do next! Keep in mind this is not a one size fits all, but it’s certainly a start. If you have any feedback or interested in working with me, please contact me at [email protected]

Before we dive in, I must mention to please be mindful of Leave No Trace principles. This is ridiculously important, and often sadly overlooked by many. The ecosystems we are blessed to be able to visit are fragile, and deserve to be treated with respect. If you have more questions on the 7 LNR principles, you can view them here.

Planning an elopement can broken down into 12 easy steps:

  • Imagine your Elopement Day
  • Make your Guest List (or skip this step entirely)
  • Pick your Date
  • Calculate the Cost of your Elopement
  • Hire your Elopement Photographer
  • Research How to Get a Marriage License & Get Legal
  • Pick your Ceremony Location
  • Have a Plan B & C
  • Check for Additional Permits for Wedding & Photography
  • Pick your Wedding Vendors & Book Accommodations/Travel
  • Plan your Elopement Timeline
  • Prepare for Your Big Day

1.) Imagine Your Elopement Day

Sit down together with a bottle of wine or cup of coffee. Each of you will need a piece of paper. Start by taking a few minutes to write down at least 3 things that are most important to you when it comes to your wedding day. Obviously getting married is the #1, but besides that, do you care most about photography, florals, having your family there? What means the most to you? Once you have those 3 items written down, share them with each other.

Next, I want you to imagine what your wedding day would look like. If you’re not sure, then start by writing down your favorite activities to do together. What do you imagine around you? If you could eat anything, what would it be? How does it feel? Emotional, fun, adventurous? Is it warm and sunny? Or maybe you want to feel the crispness of fall or the wind flowering off towering mountains. When you say your vows to one another, do you imagine anyone else there besides your photographer?

2.) Make Your Guest List (Or Skip This Step Entirely)

Start off by writing a draft list of guests you would like to invite. Ideally, less than 20 people is more of an intimate gathering and will allow you to spend time with each of your guests.

Next, think about how you plan to invite your guests. Formal invitations? Email? Word of mouth? Maybe you’re looking for more of a special touch and would prefer stationary designed perfectly to fit your personality and wedding theme?

Here are several FREE wedding planning websites that can help you automate and manage your guest list, send out invites and even make a wedding website (some do charge for use of additional features like a wedding website).




For email invitations only & RSVP tracking, visit: GREENVELOPE

If you’re looking for a more personalized option, I would love to recommend a stationary artist, Luna Lynn Creative, who specializes in creating CUSTOM branded stationary for any couple who is looking to elope. She even creates elopement announcements, vow booklets, thank you cards, invitation suites and more!

Once you have your location and date, you can send save the dates or personally contact your family members to let them know about your wedding day


Ensure your photographer gets a copy of every single bit of stationary, these small items can truly help tell a story when it comes to photographing the details of your elopement day

If you want to go all out on planning, put together a word document or PDF of the following items and send it to each guest to help curb those questions you know are coming about how to elope in Colorado:

1.) How to dress

2.) Things to eat nearby

3.) Suggested mode of transportation

4.) Nearest Airport (if applicable)

5.) High level overview of elopement timeline (we will walk through this later)

The groom busted into a dance after seeing his new bride in her wedding dress. This wedding was challenging as we learned how to plan an elopement during Colorado wildfires!
Bride wipes her tears with a tissue as she reads love letter from her groom while getting ready

3.) Pick Your Date

This is when your elopement finally starts to feel official! If you don’t already have a date in mind, then I suggest choosing a weekday during your preferred season if possible. If it’s a popular location, then opting for a weekday often means more seclusion. Believe it or not, national parks can turn into a literal traffic jam (I like to call them animal traffic jams, as they are often caused by wildlife). Rocky Mountain National Park alone received $4.5 million visitors in 2018.

4.) Calculate The Cost Of Your Elopement

Here are the main expenses to help give you a running start:

  • Elopement photographer
  • Transportation (flights, rental car, parking, tolls, insurance etc)
  • Airbnb or a place to stay
  • Florist
  • Makeup trial (if any)
  • Hair & Makeup Artist
  • Décor rentals
  • Baker
  • Musicians
  • Officiant
  • Videographer
  • Vow booklets
  • Wedding rings
  • Permits and fees for marriage license
  • Permits and fees for national parks
  • Additional details such as stationary, invitations, thank you cards
  • Food, snacks, drinks
  • Dress and/or Tux Rentals/Purchases

5.) Hire Your Elopement Photographer

This is where I come in! The moment you have your date (or at least an idea of what day you want to get married), it’s time to contact a specialized elopement photographer to help you plan and navigate the crazy and wild waters of planning an adventurous elopement. I highly suggest you hire a photographer like myself who only photographs elopements. Why is this important? Photographers who specialize in elopements can help you with all the logistics, will also be able to help you find the perfect place to say your vows, and more! We are here to help you plan your dream wedding, however that may look.

6.) Research How To Get A Marriage License

Every state/country is different, it’s very important you plan your elopement way ahead of time when it comes to researching the laws and requirements before making any official booking plans or reservations.

In Colorado, you can self-solemnize, and a witness is not required. This means you do not need an officiant to sign your marriage license and get married in the state of Colorado. In fact, you can climb a mountain and do it all by yourselves, or you can bring along your dog and put their paw print on the witness line of your marriage license! This is great news, as it allows you to be very creative in the time and place in which you finally put pen to paper to make your commitment to one another official.

Visit the link for more information on how to get married in Colorado.

For more information on US state laws regarding marriage licenses.

Bride and groom hop onto a rock for their couples portraits during their adventurous Colorado elopement
Dramatic photo of groom pushing brides hair out of her face as they stare into each other's eyes, and the wildfire smoke from Colorado looms in the background.

7.) Pick Your Ceremony Location

Time for the fun part – choosing your ceremony location! Remember in step 1 when I had you imagine your elopement day? Take another look. How is the weather? What is the landscape around you? Are there trees? Lakes? Tall mountains or buildings? Is it sunny and warm, or snowy? Is it at sunrise or sunset? or in the middle of the day on the beach? There is no wrong answer here. Once you have your criteria, start researching online for areas that may have the base requirements, make a list.

If you have hired me as your elopement photographer, then right after booking I will provide a questionnaire that asks all the right questions to help me find you the perfect spot for your elopement. If your spot is local to Colorado, I may even scout it myself before recommending it. I put A LOT of work into my location research guides. It will include everything you need to know about each location so you can make an informed decision on where you decide to elope.

If you’re wanting to do a little research yourself, I suggest downloading the desktop version of Google Earth Pro. This tool is hands down my favorite tool to use when exploring. You can view the exact moment the place the sun will rise and set, and even see how it falls across the landscape. If you’re looking to say your vows during sunrise or sunset, you can calculate the exact time to get the most supreme lighting. In addition, you can view images taken by other users at that location, and place a marker anywhere in the world to see a 3D mockup of how the landscape looks (keep in mind trees are not rendered, but appear flat).

Couple 3D Google Earth Pro with Alltrails, and the amount of information available at your fingertips should have you ready to prepare for any adventure. Download the pro version of Alltrails to help guide you through the forest and keep you on trail, as you can use it offline to ensure you don’t get lost.

Things to be aware of: Altitude sickness is a very real and common thing, especially if you plan to elope in Colorado. If you are traveling to a higher elevation in a short amount of time I highly recommend researching symptoms and how to avoid getting sick. It can quickly turn deadly if you’re not careful.

Couple reads handwritten vows to each other during their intimate sunset wedding ceremony. This bride and groom reached out to me to plan their Colorado elopement, and it turned out perfectly.

8.) Have a Plan B and Plan C

It’s never a bad idea to have a backup plan, especially if you are having an outdoor ceremony. Mother nature can be unpredictable, and it’s not uncommon for elopements to be moved to a different spot due to overcrowding, weather or other potential hazards. It’s never a bad idea to have a plan B and C in case of crowds, last minute road or park closures, weather, wildlife, or other unsafe conditions.

9.) Check For Additional Permits for Weddings & Photography

If you are getting married in a national forest or protected land, then a permit will likely be required for photography and/or the ceremony. I highly suggest researching your ceremony location, so you aren’t surprised by any rangers. In addition to going by the book, you can typically ask National Park rangers questions about photo locations and how to get away from the crowds. Typically, your elopement photographer will guide you on any restrictions or additional fees, but it’s always best to call a park ranger and find out for yourself.

10.) Pick Your Wedding Vendors, Book Your Travel & Accommodations

Start by booking your travel, then your vendors. There is no shortage of people who would be honored to help you make your elopement day the dream wedding that you DESERVE, and will even travel thousands of miles to be there for you!

Here is a list of vendors you may need to hire for your big day

  • Flight (if required)
  • Place to stay
  • Transportation
  • Photographer (oh – pick me)!
  • Planner
  • Videographer
  • Florist
  • Hair & makeup artist
  • Officiant
  • Décor rentals
  • Stationery artist
  • Private chef or catering company
  • Adventure guide

If you’ve already hired me as your photographer, perfect, then I’m basically your built-in planner. I will help you contact vendors and keep all the to do list items in order and on track.

Bride and groom sit in the back of their Jeep in front of a massive mountain for their adventurous Colorado elopement
Groom poses for the camera as he grabs his lapel
Bride and groom stare into each other's eyes and smile as they drink beer on a mountain top at sunset

11.) Plan Your Elopement Timeline

While everyone’s timeline will be different, here is a rough draft of all the items you may want to include if you need help on how to elope in Colorado or anywhere else in the world. I’ve even included the minimum length of time to provide for each activity.

Getting Ready

Allow a minimum of 1.5 hours for the stylist do their part. During this time, your photographer will likely be collecting photos of the scene and your details such as dress, flowers, stationary, meaningful items, rings, etc.

Give yourself at least another 20 minutes to get dressed, do not feel rushed!

First Look

I always tell couples to take at least a half an hour for this moment. If you choose to have a first look, that moment when you see each other in your wedding clothes for the very first time can be a big deal. Don’t rush it. Take a few moments to really soak it in, and take a few photos.

Formal Photos with Friends and Family

If you brought along friends or family, the best time to capture photos of you together would be right before the ceremony. If you decided not to do a first look, this will likely take place after the ceremony.


If you’re hiking to your elopement location, then please be aware it typically takes about 30 – 45 minutes per mile to reach your destination. This depends on the steepness and how long you stop for photo opportunities.

TIP: If you are having a sunset ceremony, then I would suggest spending a minimum of 30 – 60 minutes for couple’s photos before the ceremony, as you may lose all the light after (you can always take more, right)?


However, you wish! Maybe you’re celebrating by drinking champagne and hiking down a mountain, or dancing around the campfire with your closest friends and family. There are so many options when it comes to celebrating the fact that YOU’RE MARRIED! All I can do is provide recommendations.

List of activities and fun things to do on your elopement day

  • Have a meal with your family and friends at a delicious local eatery
  • Play yard games and drink beer at a local Colorado brewery on the river
  • Order a private chef catered meal to your AirBnb
  • Take a Jeep tour to epic and secluded mountain locations
  • Take a helicopter tour
  • Hike together
  • Backpack together, build a campfire, and lay under the stars
  • Dance around the campfire at your Airbnb
  • Ski or snowboard down a mountain
  • Rent a canoe and take adorable pictures (please do this)
  • White water rafting, paddle boarding, or any water activities
  • Find a local hot spring
  • The possibilities are endless!


  • The best lighting occurs about 1 – 2 hours before sunrise, and 1 – 2 hours before sunset. This is typically called the ‘golden hour’, where the light is extra soft and coming from a direction that creates beautiful shadows. Tall mountains like the ones in Colorado may add an hour onto this time, it’s best to check the tools from step #5 to calculate exact timing of your elopement location.
  • It’s best to elope on a weekday to avoid the crowds, this is important for popular locations.
  • Allow time for travel, and plan for the worst. When you have your wedding in a forest or on top of a mountain, you must embrace what mother nature throws at you. A little rain and dirt never hurt anyone!
Bride and groom kiss each other during sunset with the sun flaring over her shoulder in Garden of the Gods
This bride and groom reached out about how to plan an elopement and we picked Garden of the Gods for their ceremony location

12.) Prepare For Your Big Day

Ok, it’s finally here! YAY! Make sure you bring along all the small items and details to the area where you will be getting ready. This includes rings, vow booklets, flowers, stationary, wedding clothes, and any other meaningful items that you want photographed. Having them ready in a box for your photographer will make them the happiest person ever, I promise.

The best tip I have for the day of your elopement is to relax, and go with the flow. Truly soak in every moment and take a ‘mental picture’ (for all you Office fans out there) of the high points.

Hopefully you made it to the end of this guide, and found at least a few tips that can help guide you through how to elope in Colorado! Don’t forget the reason why you decided to elope in the first place: to focus on the two of you and your lifetime commitment to one another.

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16 thoughts on “The Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide on How to Plan an Elopement”

  1. This guide is so complete for couples planning to elope in colorado. Tons of valuable information and secret tips. It couldn’t have been otherwise given that you are planning your own elopement so you have inside information 🙂 congrats on this!

  2. Wow! This is a super through guide for eloping in Colorado! I definitely appreciate the tip about altitude sickness because often times couples may not be considering that shift in elevation and how it could affect them

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